Welcome to Romance on Wheels. Â This week on Open Book Blog Hop we are talking about what to do if you fail at meeting a goal. Â
I’ve failed to meet my goals, who hasn’t. Â But, my husband always tells me one of the things he loves most about me is that I have the ability to pick myself up, dust myself off and keep going. Â I can’t imagine ever giving up. Â Not on something or someone I love. Â I’ve given up careers before. Â I’ve either grown board with them or realized that I’ve met every goal I could possibly meet in that career and so it was time to move on. Â That’s okay. Â I’m a creative person and I need to be creative and challenged always to keep my interest. Â There have been times in my life when I’ve thought that was a weakness, but as I’ve grown up and older, and wiser, I’ve realized that realizing it is half the battle.
So, fast forward to today. Â I’ve had successes in this world of writing and I’ve had failures. Â It isn’t easy, but then again I said I wanted to be challenged. Â The universe listened and believe me, I am challenged. Â What have I failed at? Â
I’ve failed to publish four books a year for the past two years. Â I’ve had set backs with some of my books by way of publishers and have had to change more than once when they’ve failed to follow through on what they promised. Â But that in itself isn’t too bad of a failure, it’s my own personal goal. Â I’ll readjust my writing schedule and try again.
I’ve failed to recognize when something is too good to be true it probably is. Â I don’t think I’m naĂŻve, but when all of this publishing business was new, I was following the leader. Â I now seek advice from several sources before moving forward and think things through better. Â
I’ve failed to consistently follow social media in many ways, getting lost in my fictional world. Â I try daily to make sure I check in by setting a certain time each day to do so. Â It’s working much better.
Over all, goals can be adjusted and when you fail to meet one, it’s simply time to reassess what went wrong and change it. Â Simple really. Â Have you failed to meet a goal? Â Please share with us, we just may be able to help someone realize they are not alone.
Thank you for joining me this week. Â Shall we hop on over and see what goals my fellow bloggers didn’t meet? Â Click on thumbnail below and check them out. Â
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Goals can be adjusted. That’s the best lesson anyone can take away from a failure.
I agree with you.
Take pride in the book (s) you have published in a year; it’s a better way of looking at it!
You’re right. That’s a great way to look at it.
RE-assess and start again. Thanks my philosophy too, Patti! đ I’ve also learned the hard that sometimes we are too hard on ourselves. From where I sit, it appears to me that you’ve accomplished so much! The sky’s the limit.